Girl problem... maybe?

Most girls just dont want to hurt you so tell he that it would make you feel better for her to say no than no answer at all. Tell her one date cant hurt just to try. Girls are complicated and are complex like a bomb they will go off at anything so be nice and sweet. EXSPECIANTLY on the first date. Pull her chair out and push it in be super nice. Hope it helps. And one more thing never breack her heart it kills them. So if you have a problem talk to her about it. Again hope this helps. :)